{"id":863,"date":"2015-07-10T14:47:23","date_gmt":"2015-07-10T07:47:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/library.uc.ac.id\/?p=863"},"modified":"2025-05-01T12:33:16","modified_gmt":"2025-05-01T05:33:16","slug":"3-generasi-1-atap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ciputra.ac.id\/library\/en\/3-generasi-1-atap\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Generasi 1 Atap: Model Adaptasi 3 Generasi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a ref=\"magnificPopup\" href=\"https:\/\/dieng.blob.core.windows.net\/library\/2015\/07\/3-Generasi-1-Atap.Ayahbunda-eds-11.01-14-Jun.2015.pg-86.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-864\" src=\"https:\/\/dieng.blob.core.windows.net\/library\/2015\/07\/3-Generasi-1-Atap.Ayahbunda-eds-11.01-14-Jun.2015.pg-86.jpg\" alt=\"3-Generasi-1-Atap.Ayahbunda-eds-11.01-14-Jun.2015.pg-86\" width=\"929\" height=\"1309\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pola asuh nenek kakek yang cenderung memanjakan cucu, kerap menjadi masalah hubungan dua generasi. Misalnya nih, ibunya sudah wanti-wanti agar tidak diberi es krim sebelum makan, tetapi nenek yang sayang cucu, melanggar aturan itu. Pertikaian dua generasi tak terhindarkan, cucupun bingung. \u201cItu akan terus terjadi jika kedua belah tidak saling beradaptasi, \u201cujar Dra. Bunda Sri Sugiri M.Hum. Dosen mata kuliah kesejahteraan sosial bagi manusia lanjut usia, fakultas ilmu sosial Univrsitas Indonesia, Depok. Menurut bunda, pemerintah Indonesia pernah menawarkan program \u201ctiga generasi dalam satu atap\u201d. Tujuan program ini agar nenek kakek yang tinggal dengan anak cucunya lebih sehat dan bahagia. \u201c namun ini masih pro dan kontra. Mereka yang kontra mengaku merasa di bully jika tinggal bersama anak. Karena memang bedakebiasaan dan nilai yang dianut.\u201dtutur nenek tiga cucu, anggota tim inti bidang pengabdian masyarakat di center for ageing studies Universitas Indonesia (CAS UI) pusat studi kelanjut usiaan UI.<\/p>\n<p>Bunda mencontohkan, ada nenek kakek yang tidak happy menyaksikan cucunya \u201cditelantarkan\u201d orang tuanya yang pulang malam. Itu karena nenek kakek sulit memahami sekarang ini jalanan sangat macet. Nenek kakek membandingkannya dengan zaman dulu, saat pekerja bisa pulang jam 3 sore. Sebaliknya anak bisa tersinggung jika ditanya mengapa pulang malam. \u201ctetapi menurut sebuah penelitian, lansia di sebuah desa di Bantl, Yogyakarta mengaku bahagia tinggal bersama anaknya, \u201clanjut Bunda.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTahun 2020 Indonesia menjadi Negara dengan penduduk lanjut usia terbanyak nomor 4 di dunia\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Ditengah pro dan kontra konsep tersebut. Apa solusi terdekat yang bisa dilakukan? Yang muda perlu memahami orang tua yang 20 tahun lalu segar dan gampang diajak berdiskusi, kini berubah, pendengaran berkurang, emosi lebih sensitif. Jadi, jika ingin bicara, mendekat lalu jelaskan dengan jernih. \u201cpapar bunda. Para lansia pun perlu memahami adanya perubahan dan harus beradaptasi dengan kebiasaan masa kini. \u201cMaknya bagi lansia saya sarankan untuk bergabung dengan komunitas lansia agar bisa berbagi cerita dan solusi. Teruslah berkegiatan agar tetap sehat dan bahagia,\u201d tutur bunda sambil menceritakan pengalamannya sebagai nenek yang sayang cucu, namun ternyata sang cucu mempertanyakan rasa sayang, \u201ccucu saya Kiska (4) ikut lomba di mall. Dia mengadu dengan sedih karena tidak juara dan tidak dapat hadiah, hati nenek mana yang tidak runtuh, \u201ckisah bunda.<\/p>\n<p>Bunda akhirnya meminta Kiska memilih selembar handuk dan membungkusnya dengan kado cantik. Kiska gembira. Bunda pun lega. Tapi bunda mendengar teman Kiska berkta, \u201ckok, kamu dapat hadia? \u201ctidak tega melihatnya, Bunda membelikannya hadiah juga. Eh Kiska mengadu kepada ayahnya. \u201cMide (panggilan untuk nenek). Itu sayang tidak sih sama aku. Masa membelikan kado buat anak itu. Dia bukan sahabatku. \u201cPersoalannya ternyata tidak sesederhana seperti yang saya duga, \u201cBunda tersenyum.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sumber:\u00a0Ayahbunda-eds-11.01-14-Jun.2015.pg-86<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Pola asuh nenek kakek yang cenderung memanjakan cucu, kerap menjadi masalah hubungan dua generasi. Misalnya nih, ibunya sudah wanti-wanti agar tidak diberi es krim sebelum makan, tetapi nenek yang sayang cucu, melanggar aturan itu. Pertikaian dua generasi tak terhindarkan, cucupun bingung. \u201cItu akan terus terjadi jika kedua belah tidak saling beradaptasi, \u201cujar Dra. 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