{"id":8840,"date":"2026-03-06T15:20:01","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T08:20:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ciputra.ac.id\/psy\/?p=8840"},"modified":"2026-03-06T15:20:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T08:20:01","slug":"negosiasi-identitas-agama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ciputra.ac.id\/psy\/negosiasi-identitas-agama\/","title":{"rendered":"Menemukan Titik Temu: Negosiasi Identitas Agama"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Menemukan Titik Temu: Negosiasi Identitas Agama<\/b><\/h1>\n<h6><b><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8841 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi.png\" alt=\"negosiasi identitas agama\" width=\"2245\" height=\"1587\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi.png 2245w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-300x212.png 300w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-1024x724.png 1024w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-283x200.png 283w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-250x177.png 250w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-75x53.png 75w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-50x35.png 50w, https:\/\/static.uc.ac.id\/psy\/2025\/09\/identitas-sosial-relasi-400x283.png 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2245px) 100vw, 2245px\" \/><\/b><\/h6>\n<h6><b>Perbedaan Agama dalam Hubungan<\/b><\/h6>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Raka dan Mira bertemu di sebuah organisasi kampus. Dari awal, mereka sadar ada perbedaan mendasar: Raka seorang Muslim, Mira seorang Kristen. Awalnya, hal ini terasa seperti detail kecil, tak begitu relevan dalam aktivitas sehari-hari. Namun, menurut Teori Identitas Sosial (Tajfel &amp; Turner, 1979), identitas agama adalah komponen utama identitas sosial yang memberi rasa memiliki dan makna hidup. Perbedaan ini akhirnya menuntut ruang untuk dibicarakan.<\/span><\/p>\n<h6><b>Negosiasi Identitas dalam Kehidupan Sehari-hari<\/b><\/h6>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Titik itu muncul ketika mereka membahas masa depan. Mira berkata, \u201cKalau kita serius, kita perlu tahu seperti apa kita nanti.\u201d Raka menyadari bahwa ini bukan sekadar soal perasaan, tetapi juga soal nilai dan keyakinan yang membentuk mereka sejak kecil.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Proses ini bisa disebut negosiasi identitas (Ting-Toomey, 2005), yakni upaya mempertahankan identitas diri sambil menyesuaikan diri dengan identitas pasangan. Contohnya, Mira hadir di rumah Raka saat Lebaran, ikut makan ketupat meski tak ikut salat. Sebaliknya, Raka duduk di ruang tamu keluarga Mira saat Natal, ikut menyanyi meski tak mengucap doa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mereka menyepakati aturan tak tertulis: hadir tanpa memaksa. Strategi ini mirip konsep akomodasi mutual, di mana kedua pihak menyesuaikan perilaku untuk menjaga kenyamanan, tanpa kehilangan inti identitasnya.<\/span><\/p>\n<h6><b>Dilema Psikologis Pasangan Beda Agama<\/b><\/h6>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negosiasi ini juga menghadirkan dilema psikologis. Raka terkadang pulang dari acara keluarga Mira dengan rasa bersalah, bertanya apakah ia \u201cmelanggar batas\u201d agamanya. Mira juga terkadang merasa terasing saat menjalani ibadah sendirian. Temuan penelitian menunjukkan pasangan beda agama sering mengalami tekanan dari kelompoknya sendiri, di mana hal ini kadang lebih berat daripada perbedaan itu sendiri.<\/span><\/p>\n<h6><b>Belajar Cinta di Tengah Perbedaan<\/b><\/h6>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meski penuh tantangan, Raka dan Mira belajar keberanian: berani memegang teguh keyakinan, sekaligus berani membuka hati pada yang berbeda. Mereka belum memutuskan menikah atau tidak, tetapi paham bahwa cinta bukan soal siapa yang menang, melainkan bagaimana keduanya tetap utuh dan berjalan berdampingan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seperti dijelaskan dalam teori identitas sosial, rasa memiliki pada kelompok tidak harus menghapus keterhubungan dengan orang dari kelompok lain, asal keduanya membangun jembatan di atas jurang perbedaan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Ditulis oleh<span>\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #411261;\"><a style=\"color: #411261;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ciputra.ac.id\/psy\/dosen-dan-staf\/\">Jony Eko Yulianto, S.Psi., M.A., Ph.D.<\/a><\/span><br \/>\nDosen<span>\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #411261;\"><a style=\"color: #411261;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/uc_psy\/\">Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Ciputra Surabaya<\/a><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Menemukan Titik Temu: Negosiasi Identitas Agama Perbedaan Agama dalam Hubungan Raka dan Mira bertemu di sebuah organisasi kampus. 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